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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 01:30

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Making more friends is a goal.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

If you believe in God, do you think God can save you from cancer?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why didn't my ex fight for our relationship? He gave up so easily.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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What I need from you?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

If you get a chance to have sex with either Kajal Agarwal or Samantha, who would you choose and why?

Does not procrastinate.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Procrastinates a lot.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hangs out with loser friends.

If gays can get married, why can't I marry my dog or a cheeseburger?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What could be the result if I block a covert narc back after he said blocks were going back up, maybe we try this again?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Can you share something that captivates you, whether it's an idea, a discovery, or an invention?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Is there an MBTI personality that is more or less likely to handle stress?

Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

What is your craziest college sex story?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

That's it for today.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.